How To Parent Multiple Young Children Without Stress And Struggle

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To break faith with, play someone false, fail, let down, double-cross, deceive, cheat, give away, denounce, sell out, stab someone in the back, bite the hand that feeds you, turn traitor, blow the whistle on, rat on, violate the confidence of, mislead, expose to inconvenience not foreseen, and lead into error. These are all definitions and synonyms of the word betray and looking closely at them shows that indeed it is possible to be betrayed by your child. Calling it betrayal without expounding more on its meaning may appear extreme or far-fetched but breaking it down to mean for example being lied to and made a fool of when a child watches you defend them for a wrong they know they did is betrayal.

Modern society is becoming more and more intolerant and merciless toward the parent that sometimes it is hard to express hurt coming from children. It is assumed that as the older person you have everything under control and as such feelings of betrayal by children are often quickly dismissed. As a mother or a father, you need to come up with a system that is healthy and fair to both you and your children. You need tactics on how to deal with betrayal should you experience it. It is always best to be prepared for different scenarios so that you act on a predetermined plan instead of freezing in the face of unexpected challenges.

When can I say that I have been betrayed by my child?

It is usually with grown children that you can face devastating scenarios, for example discovering that your beloved daughter talked behind your back, criticizing your parenting skills, personal habits, or your whole life philosophy. Your son could pick someone else’s side when you thought it was obvious he was on your team. This could be your spouse in the middle of a quarrel, separation, or divorce or another family member or friend that you may be going through a rough patch with. It is normal that you would feel betrayed if they sided with the other person especially if you gave them your side of the story which you thought showed who the monster was: not you. They may even tell your secrets at an age where they understand what violating your confidence means. Obviously, when they are younger you should expect that they may say things they shouldn’t to other people about you and can expose you to great humiliation.

Other examples include your child exaggerating your disciplining methods to the point of telling other people or even authorities such as Child protection services about them thereby portraying you as an abusive parent. It is a good thing that children are given a voice now than before so that they can be protected from abusive parents but on the flip side of that is the extremity of toxic children who use those platforms to lie on their parents. It would definitely hurt to be a victim of such. At any age, your child could develop the habit of stealing from you and probably lying about it. Imagine how disheartening it would be to find this out after a long time of defending them and probably even accusing other people instead.

One divorced blogger wrote a touching story about how her daughter transferred all the affection she thought was hers to her father’s new wife. She detailed how her daughter had sometimes shut her out when she tried to find mutually interesting activities to do with her but was now doing similar ones with the other woman. There were many other factors behind her child acting this way but her feeling betrayed was understandable.

How Do I Deal With It?

The examples of situations where your child can deceive you and break your heart are several, what matters the most is how you deal with it. The extent of your preparedness to face betrayal determines how well you react to the situation. From an early age, your children need not only to know the values you teach them but the why behind them. An effective parent explains to his or her children why he or she insists on honesty, transparency, kindness, and whatever other values they hold in high esteem. Simply forcing them on your children is likely to get the children rejecting and then lying about observing them. To avoid this, make it your goal to give them a deep understanding of the rules you give them to follow. This can eliminate betrayal from them altogether.

You can indeed take all the precautions you know in raising your young ones well but still encounter unpleasant situations when they misbehave as a result of peer pressure or their mischief. In light of this, set yourself free from the onset by leaving room for such disappointment. Promise yourself to do all that you can to raise exceptional children but forget not the other factors that will influence them on the way.

Also, cultivate a culture of freely talking to them without easily getting angry. When they know they can express themselves with you and be listened to they will reciprocate that so that when you talk they also listen. A calm approach even when you are greatly disappointed or angered by their actions is more likely to get you the results you desire- reconciliation with your child as well as them learning to do better next time.

When faced with betrayal you didn’t see coming, take consolation in this: you are not alone. Parents all around the globe face all sorts of problems with children every day. Talk to someone, another parent, and get tips from them. Talk to children as well, perhaps your children’s friends so that you acquire a balanced perspective on why they do the things they do. It is always helpful to get expert knowledge too, this can be from reading books o watching videos on child psychology or psychology, in general, to understand yourself as well and learn better ways to carry out this mammoth task called parenting.

One of the great things that humans have gifted fellow humans with is technology. Technology has the power to turn you into all that you want to be in all aspects of your life. It is through technology that great minds have come up with brilliant inventions that have proven extremely useful to our everyday lives. What you can achieve through technology can be liberating but it can also bring you certain problems when misused, particularly when it comes to kids. That is why it is important to guard and control the way your child uses technology.

Kids everywhere have adopted the tech lifestyle and most of them are required to use technology one way or the other at school. Hence, trying to protect your child from the dangers of technology by banning their use of digital devices will not work. Instead of taking that route, find proper ways of ensuring your child is safe from bad online influences and make sure they adhere to the online safety regulations you set for them as they continue using their digital devices.

One of the main concerns you may have about your child using the internet is that they can be exposed to cyberbullying, negative influences that encourage bad behavior, etc. However, you can control and monitor what your child views online, you can block certain websites that are not suitable for their age and keep them safe. Isn’t it wonderful to know that the same technology that can have a bad influence on your child has also made it possible to protect your child from the negative impact?

In the right hands, and used the right way, technology can have a positive impact on your child’s life.

BEST WAYS TO PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN FROM NEGATIVE ONLINE INFLUENCES:

1. Monitor Their Online Activities

You can allow your child to continue using technology and still raise him or her right. Get rid of the anxiety you have concerning their online safety by protecting their online presence and usage. Make use of the best parental control software available to any parent anywhere and control the kind of websites they visit. One great feature you can find from parental control software is the ability to monitor your child’s online activities.

2. Set Rules

If you have tried almost everything to get your child to get off their phone or obey other online regulations you have set, begin setting rules by writing them down. Make sure everyone is aware of the rules and place them somewhere where everyone in the house can see them. Always penalize misconduct and reward good behavior.

Online safety rules can include: not browsing adult content, sticking to the list of allowed websites, and carrying out new research (from school) under supervision. You must specify when it is appropriate for your children to use their devices and also specify when they should put them away. For example, they cannot bring their digital devices to the dinner table for whatsoever reason.

3. Talk to Them About Their Online Experiences

Talk to your child about the dangers of misusing technology. Ensure he or she understands that not everyone who presents himself friendly online is their friend. Talk to them about being careful of who they become friends with online (if your child is old enough to have a social media account). The ideal age is 14 years and above.

If your teenage son or daughter experiences online bullying, talk to them about it, and take the right step. Encourage him to talk about what he is going through and explain that it is the only way you can be able to put an end to the bullying. Don’t forget to remind your child that he is not defined by people’s opinions. Instead, he is defined by how he behaves, how he responds, the person he is on the inside, and the man he wants to become.

4. Limit the Time They Spend Online

If your child spends too much time on her laptop or mobile phone, she is bound to fail in other areas of her life. For example, socializing and making friends. So, limit the time they spend online or on their device and encourage other activities such as physical exercise and being with friends.

5. Take an Interest in Their Online Influencers

Online influencers are making big changes in people’s lives and they should be celebrated for that. However, not all influencers can have a positive impact on your child’s life. Hence, start following your child’s online influencers and make sure you talk to him or her extensively about the dangers of listening to negative influences.

Separation is not easy for kids mainly because they do not fully understand what’s going on. They may feel they are responsible for their parent’s separation or divorce. They worry about things never going back to normal again or the way they used to be. As a parent, it is normal to worry about the impact that divorcing your partner has on your children.

If both of you decide temporal separation is best while you figure out a way forward, thinking about the best ways of helping your kids cope with the separation is important because your decision also affects them.

Only tell your kids what they need to know.

Talking negatively to your kids about your partner or blaming your spouse for the separation will only worsen the pain already felt by your kids. The only way of helping them handle the fact that home, as they know it will no longer be the same, is to avoid blaming each other or arguing in their presence. In addition to that, make sure you only tell your kids what they need to know. Do not overwhelm them with the unpleasant details or happenings that led to the separation or divorce.

Best ways to help your kids handle separation or divorce.

  • Tell them the separation is only temporary.

If you and your partner have decided separation is the best route while you figure things out make sure you tell your kids that the move is only temporary. Explain to them that whatever happens after spending some time apart is not their fault.

  • Listen to their concerns.

Listening to the concerns that your kids have will aid in helping them handle the separation or divorce. So, do not take their concerns or feelings lightly. Instead, address any concerns they have and reassure them that their worries are valid but they can still count on both of you to be there for them. Tell them how much you love them and let them know that both of you will always love them.

Some of the feelings that may be felt by your kids include anger, sadness, and frustration. Remember to respect their feelings and talk to them about the way they feel. Say “I understand why you feel that way” and don’t forget to check on them from time to time.

  • Help them understand why you have decided to get a divorce.

Avoid talking separately to your kids about sensitive matters if you want a positive outcome. Talk to your partner about how you are going to tell your kids about the divorce. Both of you must agree with each other when explaining to them what divorcing means and make sure you agree on important arrangements that need to be made. For instance, a calendar highlighting when each parent will be spending time with them. Once you draw up a plan, aim to keep things as normal as they can be. Having a normal routine and sticking to it will give them a sense of security. It will make them feel cared for by both parents and it is a great way of comforting them.

  • Assure your kids that you do not hate each other.

Most kids assume that their parents divorcing means they hate each other and often jump to the conclusion that they are responsible for making sure they get their parents back together again. Assure your kids that you do not hate each other and let them know that the decisions you make are between the two of you because you know what’s best.

  • Maximize the time you have with them.

One way of helping your children cope with your divorce is by maximizing the time you spend with them. Help them with their homework, do fun activities together, and always attend school events.

Becoming a parent is one of the best things that can happen to you. However, parenthood comes with a lot of obstacles that make it challenging for you to be the father or mother you desire to be. Your beautiful 5-year old baby may turn into an overenergetic and uncontrollable nightmare overnight. Your 12-year old may become disrespectful and detached leaving you with the hopeless alarm of trying to figure out where it all started.

You may be trying to find out how it all started without any success. Do not despair because you are not alone. A lot of parents are dealing or are at least trying to deal with their disrespectful or disconnected kids and some have found effective ways of overcoming the challenges of parenthood.

Spending quality time with your child can influence positive change.

One common challenge you may face as a parent is failing to spend enough time with your child due to your busy schedule. This is quite normal in this day and age where people are preoccupied with finding new ways of improving their livelihoods professionally, academically, etc. However, until you realize the importance of spending time with your child, you may never be able to positively influence his or her behavior.

Your child becomes distant when you fail to give him/her your time.

One of the main reasons your child becomes disrespectful and distant out of the blue is that they are not getting the attention they deserve or need from you. That is why spending quality time with your children is important no matter how busy you are. If you want to start seeing positive change in your child’s behavior make sure you include him or her in your everyday schedule.

Spending quality time with your child is not limited to going camping or going on vacation at least twice a month. It does not have to be something big or extravagant. It can be something as small as playing in the backyard with them, helping out with their homework, or just sitting down and listening to them. Keep in mind that what your child needs from you is that you give them the attention they need. Show your son or daughter how much you care by just being there for them.

Practical ways to create positive changes in your child’s life.

1. Expect Positive Change From Your Child

“You can never do anything right.” “You are no good.” Such negative comments have the power to turn your child’s life upside down. Negative comments leave your child feeling worthless and unloved and he or she retaliates by being stubborn or outright defiant. However, you can avoid all this by simply refraining from negative talk and passing positive and encouraging compliments.

Start by expecting good behavior and telling him or her that you are expecting only great things from them. Your conversations must be centered on positive affirmations that build character.

2. Communicate Well With Your Kids

A lack of communication often leads to misunderstandings. That is why you have to start communicating effectively with your children. Let them know what you expect from them and make sure you emphasize that good behavior will be rewarded while bad behavior will entail consequences. Once you make that decision, make sure you see it through.

If your son behaves the right way make sure you reward him for it, stay true to your word. If your daughter misbehaves make sure she gets the discipline which entails. Remaining true to your word will not only make the kids take what you say seriously but it will help them pause and think each time they are about to do something. Good or bad.

3. Work With Your Partner

Sometimes raising your kids is becomes difficult when you try to do it alone. However, it becomes much easier when you are working with your partner. They say it takes a village to raise a child and it is not a lie. Work with your partner, parents, sibling, and other people in your life. Do not shut your spouse out when trying to change the way your child conducts himself or herself. Set the right example by working together and making decisions together.

One mistake you can make when reprimanding your kids is arguing in front of them or disagreeing on how you can best correct them for wrongs that have already been committed. So, avoid this by making decisions together and agreeing with each other whenever they are around. Any differences you have can be settled when the kids are not around.

Your little girl or boy has been showing interest in someone of the opposite sex lately. They blush when talking about them and if they are close enough to you they have been asking random questions about the things boys or girls like. Finally, they tell you that they have a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Were you ready for this? Do you know what to say or do to make this experience a good one for your child? It is possible you are not very amused at hearing this news, because you feel it was too soon or you don’t approve of their choice.

Here are some dos and don’ts that can act as a guide to a healthy relationship with your child in this new exciting phase of their life.

1. Do understand that it is okay for them to start earlier than you expected.

You may still be seeing a baby in your growing child so it may surprise you to hear them talk of their first girlfriend or boyfriend but do understand this: the world is fast-paced today than it was yesterday. Children are developing faster too, generally, they learn so much earlier so your ‘baby’ is probably ready to step into the dating arena as well.

2. Do show a healthy kind of interest

At least get to know the girlfriend or boyfriend, ask about the kind of person they are and if possible meet with them. They will give you hints if you are overstepping but the basic getting to know them not only makes you more at ease as it eliminates the mystery of who your child is associating with but is also important for them not to feel like they are doing something wrong.

3. Do teach them how to be safe

You want your child to have happy experiences but to be safe from all kinds of heartbreaks and other traps that they may fall into all in the name of love. Share with them from your own experiences what you learned and give them a balanced perspective on love and sex. Eliminate the risk of them blindly leading each other into a ditch while trying to figure everything out themselves.

4. Do take it easy, it is a relationship, not marriage

Do not get too serious about their relationship, let your child find their foot in the relationship but be ready to support them if the relationship ends.

5. Do teach them self-love

Make sure your child values themselves before they value the next person, this will shield them from being influenced into indulging in activities they aren’t sure about or ready for. Very early in their lives, teach them self-love and boost their confidence at all times and they will be sure to know how to boldly say no to people including their girlfriend or boyfriend when they start dating.

6. Hear what their purpose of dating is

It helps to teach them the purpose of love and relationships early but when they eventually get into it, hear what they have to say. This will be a mixture of what you taught them and their thinking. Freely allow them to express themselves and gently correct them where they miss it.

7. Do let them know that they can talk to you about anything

They may reject your extended hand first as they regard you as old-fashioned or too rigid, but them knowing you are always available to hear them out and advise them will make all the difference should they encounter problems they don’t know how to solve.

8. Don’t be too excited

Please don’t start calling your child’s date your daughter or son in law or any such forward-suggesting titles as this may put a heavy burden on their young love. Accepting and approving their relationship is good enough. Being overly excited about the relationship will also make it hard for them to tell you in case it doesn’t work out. Plus you have to make sure your child continues to have a balanced life that does not revolve entirely around their dating.

9. Do not be overly-suspicious

As your child grows, he or she may want to keep some stuff secret like where they hang out with their friends and partners. Continue to encourage them not to get into trouble but do not be too suspicious about what they do because once they sense that, they conclude you mistrust them. Young people who feel they are mistrusted usually become distant with that particular parent or worse still end up giving up on doing good.

10. Don’t embarrass them

This is a sensitive time for your child’s ego so for starters you might want to stop calling them pet names they have outgrown unless of course, they like them. If they ask you to stop calling them baby, cutie, dolly, or whatever sweet name you had for them it means they feel they have outgrown it. Do them the favor of dropping it. Listen to them and their body language and do stop doing things that embarrass them.

Above all these, listen to your child and they are sure to guide you into their customized dos and don’ts. Be a step ahead all the time so that while your child is still a baby, you are thinking about how you will handle them as a toddler. Years before they become a teenager ask yourself crucial questions about the kind of teen you want to raise and how you can do that. Let nothing find you unaware. Prepare, imagine, and prepare some more.

Most parents make the mistake of choosing a college or university for their children without involving them. This gives rise to many disappointments such as, your kid not enjoying his college life, falling into depression, feeling frustrated, feeling lost, performing poorly, etc. The good thing is that all this can be avoided by asking for your child’s participation and valuing his or her opinion.

One way of ensuring you have chosen the right academic institution for your children is by involving them in the process of examining and picking schools, after all, it’s their future.

6 things to do to ensure you pick the right college for your child.

1. Understand that your kid is responsible for making the final decision.

It is great that you have decided to pick the right college for your child with him or her. Your guidance, your input, your advice as well as your interest in the entire process is important. It shows how much you care for your children’s future as well as what happens in their lives. However, the most important thing to keep in mind is that your child is responsible for making the final decision. He has a right to go to the college of his own choice and so, you should let him.

2. Do not force your child to choose the college you think is best.

Involving your child in the process of choosing universities is wise and it is something that should be applauded. However, you must be careful not to force your kid to settle for the college of your choice. Just because you are still cherishing the fondest memories of your college years does not mean your child is destined to attend that same institution.

Avoid saying “It will be good for you” or “You are going to enjoy being there” because you don’t know that. You will be surprised to learn that there are prestigious academic institutions that you think will have a huge positive impact on your child’s life but turn out to be the exact opposite. There are many factors to consider when choosing the right university for your child. It does not stop in knowing how reputable the academic establishment is.

3. Talk about your kid’s concerns.

You have to talk about the concerns that your children have and address them. They may be concerned about leaving their friends, failing to make new friends, wanting to go to the same college as their mates, etc. All these are valid concerns that you must not turn a deaf ear to.

4. Consider your child’s interests and give sound advice.

Your child may be battling with the decision of choosing between two or more programs offered. This is where your guidance and well-informed advice comes in. Help her make the right choice by asking relevant questions. For example, “Why are you interested in this Degree program?” “What could happen if you chose B instead of A?” and consider where her strengths are as well. Once you have the answers you are looking for, start offering your advice. Tell her the benefits of choosing the one over the other and talk about career prospects for each program.

5. Understand the programs offered by the preferred institution.

Do proper research before finalizing the decision and be aware of the programs offered by the college of preference. Have a thorough knowledge of the kind of education your children will be receiving and know how well previous students were performing.

6. Consider location.

Location is important when picking the right university. Consider distance and talk about it at length if it is a factor.

Many people are not happy with their jobs and if you look closely you will notice that the main reason for that is because they failed to choose their career path based on their passion. Instead, they chose their occupation based on popular opinion, how much money they could make, or what they have been pushed to do. Picking your occupation based on what people say is bound to leave you disgruntled, incomplete, and hating your job.

You will feel miserable half the time and constantly come up with new ways of quitting or finding a better job. That is no way to live your life. As a parent, you have to protect your kids from going through the same predicament. You can achieve this by playing an active role in helping them decide on the profession they may pursue earlier on or before heading to college.

Smart ways of helping your child choose the right career path.

• Help your child discover their strengths.

One of the best things that can happen to your kids is them discovering what they are good at. Assisting your kids in choosing the right profession requires you to realize their strengths and maximize them. Start by finding out what they enjoy doing and have them try out different things because they have enough time to do so. Once you are aware of what your kid is passionate about, start getting the most out of that passion.

• Enable your kids to cultivate their skills.

One of the main reasons why children give up on their most cherished dreams at a tender age is because they lack the kind of support and guidance needed. Ensure your child keeps improving her skills by making the environment conducive to the cultivation of the skills possessed. This can be achieved by offering words of encouragement and enrolling him or her in short-courses to gain in-depth knowledge and stay up to speed.

You can also encourage internships or advise your children to join boot camps which are a great way of ensuring your kids have a working knowledge of what they are studying. If your child keeps changing courses don’t let it get to you, remember, he should rather continue moving from one program to another until he finds what he is truly passionate about than stick to something that will make him miserable throughout his adult life.

• Do not force your children into choosing the same career as you have chosen.

Most parents wish their kids could be in the same line of work as they are in and there is nothing wrong with wishing for that. As long as you do not overdo it. How can I know that I am overdoing it? You may ask. When you find yourself forcing your child to be a lawyer because everyone else in the family is, then know that you are overdoing it.

If you find yourself saying things like “You were born to be an engineer”, know that you are overdoing it. If you want your child to be truly happy about their job let him select his path. The only thing you can do is offer guidance, wisdom, and funding (where needed).

• Offer your support.

Helping your kids pick the right career involves supporting their decision even when you are not ecstatic about their choice. For example, if you are not quite thrilled about your daughter’s decision of becoming a photographer when you want her to be a doctor support her anyway. At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is your child’s happiness. Imagining your kid 15 years from now doing what she loves, happy, satisfied, and thriving with her job is all you need to help you come to terms with her career choice.

Every parent goes through the emotional rollercoaster of having their once innocent and sweet child look them in the eye and say “I won’t do it” “You can’t make me do what I don’t want to do.” Nothing matches the pain you feel when those words start coming out of your kid’s mouth. You may be having problems with your children opposing everything you say, shouting and screaming at you, or refusing to do what they are told. You are not alone.

As a way of comforting yourself, you may start believing that your son or your daughter is going through a phase and that it will soon pass. Most of the time, you may be right. Most kids go through a period in their lives where they feel they do not have to answer to anyone but it eventually goes away. However, what happens when you realize that your kid has chosen to be outright rebellious? Where do you begin searching for answers and how do you deal with an unruly child?

I hope you find the answers you are looking for by practicing the next tips on the best ways of handling a rebellious child. I also hope by practicing them you will begin seeing pleasant changes in your kid’s behavior.

Best ways of handling a rebellious child.

• Be clear when setting the rules.

Children need to know the difference between acceptable behavior and unacceptable behavior. You have to set clear rules for them. Make sure they are aware of the punishment they will receive if they are disobedient or if they yell at you or each other.

• Administer the exact punishment that has been stated.

Your defiant child will only take you seriously if you stand by what you say without compromising. After you have spoken to your kid about the punishment that will be received after behaving in such and such a manner make sure you administer the punishment if the rules are broken. Avoid negotiating the penalty once the offense has been committed no matter how much your child begs or cries. It is the only way of instilling obedience and making them see how bad their behavior is.

• Avoid acting out of anger.

Reacting emotionally to your kid’s disobedience is natural. After all, you are human. Nonetheless, acting out of anger will not help anyone. You have to put your emotions aside if you want to help your child realize his errors. Take charge of the situation and have the upper hand. If you feel you cannot control your emotions give your children a timeout and address their actions after calming down.

• Ask your child why he acts the way he does.

Sometimes asking your children why they behave the way they do will open your eyes to some of the things you are blind to. You may be surprised to realize that your kid’s rebellion has nothing to do with you failing as a parent but it has everything to do with being bullied at school. Perhaps your son has a difficult time making friends and so he feels he is not good enough. Do not get me wrong, not all rebellious kids have a difficult time making friends, and not all of them are bullied at school. My point is that most of the time, their rebellion is caused by a much deeper issue or problem they have but don’t feel comfortable discussing with anyone. So, wait for your kid to calm down before trying to get to the root of the problem or try bringing the subject up when your child is in good spirits.

No matter how insubordinate you think your children are, there is more to them than meets the eye. They can improve and become everything you have been hoping for.

The key to accomplishing what you want to achieve with your child is remaining calm, getting him to open up, standing by your word, holding him accountable for his actions, seeing the best in him as well as encouraging good behavior.

The only way to guarantee your children grow up healthy in all areas of their lives is by carefully watching what they eat. However, getting your kids to eat their veggies and other healthy foods is never easy. They complain about not being hungry, not enjoying the way their food tastes, etc. until you are obliged to have them eat their vegetables by force because as a parent, you know what’s best for them.

The best news is that you don’t have to keep forcing your kids to eat the kind of food they hate. Your kids can start eating healthy food and enjoying them with little effort from you, without even forcing them. Sounds too good to be true? Well, it isn’t.

Make eating healthy foods enjoyable for your kids by turning those dreaded veggies into a delicious smoothie. Prepare a healthy vegetable smoothie for your child and add his favorite fruit to give him the taste he desires. So, the next time you find yourself saying “finish your veggies”, start thinking “there are better ways of doing this.”

Healthy and enjoyable food for kids and their benefits.

1. Yogurt.

Kids love yogurt but the problem with yogurt is that it contains added sugar which interferes with ensuring you keep your child healthy. The good news is that you do not have to completely cut off yogurt from your kids’ meals. Stick to plain Greek yogurt which has no added sugars and add fruits or sprinkle whole-grain cereal on top before serving it to your kids. Healthy yogurt will provide your kids with vital nutrients for their development such as Vitamin D and protein.

2. Fruits.

Getting your child to eat fruits is not so hard to do nonetheless if your kid does not like having fruits you can always make eating fruits fun by making a fruit salad. Buy them dried fruits or canned fruits as well.

3. Peanut butter.

Most kids love peanut butter and that is a good thing because it provides your child with healthy fat, B Vitamins, and protein. Experts advise that you should avoid giving your kids peanut butter if they are under 4 years old. Also, make sure your child is not allergic to peanuts before offering him peanut butter in large amounts.

4. Berries.

Berries are one of the healthiest foods that kids love so, continue adding them to your kids’ meals. Berries have a low sugar content and are high in Vitamin C and antioxidants. Examples of berries to give to your child include strawberries, blackberries, and blueberries. Serve berries plainly to your kids or add them to their plain yogurt or whole-grain cereal.

5. Eggs.

Eggs can aid in your child’s brain development because of the omega-3 fatty acids they contain. Other nutrients found in eggs that are essential for your child’s growth include Vitamin B12 as well as iron. Make eating healthy foods fun by substituting unhealthy fried foods with scrambled eggs and come up with creative ways of serving eggs to your kids. For example, egg salad.

6. Milk.

Drinking milk is quite enjoyable for kids. You just have to be careful of the kind of milk you give them. Only purchase low-fat milk which will provide your child with calcium, phosphorous, vitamin B12, and potassium among other essential nutrients.

Health professionals say you must not give cow’s milk to your child until the age of 1. So, make sure you are well aware of age restrictions and other important information associated with certain foods before feeding your child.

7. Sweet potatoes.

Sweet potatoes are rich in potassium and fiber. Coming up with different ways of serving sweet potatoes to your kids will ensure they enjoy every meal. The great thing about sweet potatoes is that most kids love them hence, getting them to eat their potatoes shouldn’t be a problem.

Homeschooling your kids is one of the wisest decisions you can ever make as a parent and since you have already decided to homeschool your child, we will not get into great details about the advantages of going that route.

Homeschooling your children is a great way of helping them enjoy their studies more so they can attain better grades and keep attaining them.

Following are the best tips you can start using today as you continue or begin homeschooling your children:

1. Do your research.

The only way of ensuring your child gets the kind of education suited for him is by knowing the school’s curriculum. Find out the school’s course outline before you begin teaching your child and know where your child needs improvement.

When you are aware of the program offered by your kid’s academic institution, talk to your kids about your decision to start teaching them from home.

2. Set goals.

You will only hit your target and get what you are aiming for by setting clear goals for your kids’ education. Talk to them about what you intend to accomplish by homeschooling them and begin setting goals. For instance, if your 13-year old is facing some challenges with one specific topic, one of the goals you need to set is: Improve Algebra and outline the best ways of doing so.

3. Decide on the timetable with your kids.

The most important thing to remember when homeschooling your kids is that you must avoid overdoing it. The learning timetable or schedule must include constant breaks. Include 10-minute breaks after every topic that is more challenging to them before moving on to the next subject.

Avoid setting the timetable without asking them for suggestions. Your child will better enjoy his studies if he is actively involved in the learning process including deciding what to learn and when.

4. Make learning fun and enjoyable.

While it is important to focus on your child’s grades it is also wise to avoid turning the learning process into a grueling task or competition. Include fun activities and make learning from home enjoyable for your kids. Turn it into something they can look forward to by making the process easy.

One way of making learning easy for your kids is including creative activities they enjoy in the learning schedule. For example, if your daughter loves painting but it is not included in her curriculum, you can still add it to the homeschooling timetable at least once a day.

5. Cultivate your child’s passions.

Your kids have unique passions that need to be cultivated and showing you care for their interests will encourage them to be the best they can be in life and everything else they do.

6. Keep encouraging your kids to do better.

Improve your child’s grades by complimenting him or her for small victories. “Great job”, “Keep up the good work”, or a simple pat in the back for a job well done goes a long way. Positive compliments will not only boost your child’s self-esteem but it will also motivate him to love learning and continue improving. Positive comments are also one of the most effective ways of encouraging your kids to do better and be better.

7. Reward them for their successes.

Make learning enjoyable for your kids by rewarding them for accomplishing set goals, improving their understanding, performing better, and improving their grades. A few examples of some of the rewards you can give to your kids include buying them what they ask for, a bike, a pet, etc. You can also allow your child to watch his favorite animated movie after sticking to the daily learning routine. That would be one of the best rewards, trust me.

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